Be Careful of Who Advises You and Your Partner: Some Voices Can Lead You Both Astray

In your marriage or relationship, there is need for wisdom when dealing with your partner. You should know that there are certain people and friends that you must not allow to interfere or intervene in your affairs with your partner.
Always make it your responsibility to guard your circle so that snakes (fake friends, jealous colleagues, envious neighbors, hateful family members and people too familiar with you) will not come with ulterior motives in pretense of loving you and caring for you so much to whisper some bad thoughts or advice into your ears which can eventually echo and lead into having crisis in your marital home.
It is important to know that, whenever the marriage or relationship is appearing to be facing some challenges, you should first of all seek the face of God, pray and ask God to help you and give you wisdom needed to deal with the perplexing challenges.
Before you tell anyone about anything that is not working well in your marriage or relationship, you need to ask God for the “spirit of discernment”, so that you don’t end up confiding in people with bad energy who would be so happy to create and add more confusions, problems, seeds of discord through the bad advice and suggestions they will give to you. Some persons in your life are not real and honest with you, they are just pretending to be good persons to you at face and lips value but right inside their hearts, they are wishing that you are experiencing bad things, problems, troubles, bitterness, unrest , no peace of mind and some even wish you death.
Therefore, make it your responsibility to watch and monitor the type of friends and people your partner is keeping; screen the integrity of people he/she is always taking advice from because one bad advice or more can definitely damage your marriage or relationship with him/her. We need to always be wise, sensitive and vigilant.